For example, you might walk up as he’s telling a joke to a group of people and say, “Hey, that was a great joke. I like you—you’re funny. " At the same time, you do want to keep it light. Don’t make it seem like you’re looking to tie him down in an exclusive relationship right away or he’ll run for the hills. Fun and flirty is the name of the game here.
Both signs love to travel, so if you have stories about a trip you’ve taken recently, that’ll be sure to get him going. Both of you are known to enjoy stimulating conversation, so this is a sure-fire way to attract his interest. And don’t worry if you happen to disagree on something—that just makes it even more fun. He’ll be intrigued by your passion and fiery nature.
The easiest way to do this is to skip over little details about your past. You can use those details to surprise and delight him later and he’ll love the fact that he keeps learning new things about you. For example, you might show him some of your photographs and mention that you enjoy photographing nature. Just wait until he comes over and sees the framed photo that won a prize in a national competition to let that little detail slip.
It’s even better if the two of you run in different circles. A party with your friends gives him an opportunity to meet new people and learn new things, which he always enjoys.
Bright colors attract the Gemini man’s typically roving eye as well. You’re a fire sign, so mix it up with orange and red—and don’t be surprised if he tells you orange is his favorite color. An interesting accessory with a story behind it will be sure to capture his attention. That handmade necklace from Peru? Perfect.
Being unavailable from time to time is a great way to accomplish this. If you’re hard to get ahold of and always flitting about from one activity to the next, he’ll definitely think you’re a keeper. This isn’t a guy that you need to ask for advice or play the “damsel in distress” so he’ll come to your aid. He’ll be more interested if you show him how you were able to take care of a situation yourself.
If you can’t come up with an idea on the fly, just go for a walk together. You’re sure to pass something that strikes your interest and you can take it from there: “Hey look, an ax-throwing place! Let’s go throw axes!” He’s also curious and likes trying new things, so it’s even better if you land on something he’s never done before.
It’s fine if you have several different ideas, but don’t try to hold to a strict itinerary—that’ll make him antsy. Instead, put that famous Sagittarian spontaneity to good use! Take a chance on new things that are off the beaten path or haven’t quite caught on with the mainstream yet. Even if the two of you end up having a lousy time, you’ll still have a great story to tell.
If you keep things light and fun, he’ll get to the point where he wants to share his feelings with you.
Try not to be available all the time—that’s an easy way to be unpredictable. It also reinforces your independence if he doesn’t feel like you’re hanging around waiting for him to text or call. Announce that you’re doing things, rather than letting him in on the planning stages. That’ll keep him on his toes because he won’t be able to predict your next move.
