For instance, you might think, “I’m starting to develop feelings for Nadia. She’s so funny and charismatic. "
For instance, you might realize you’re attracted to certain qualities in a person. If you focus on meeting new people and developing relationships, you may meet people who have similar qualities.
For example, if a group of you are going out after work and you know your boss will be there, make up an excuse not to go.
It’s really easy to send flirty messages on social media so remove this temptation and don’t interact virtually.
If you’re currently in a relationship, ask yourself if you’re feeling neglected or unhappy. Sometimes, developing a crush means that you need to focus more on improving your current relationship. If you or your boss is married or currently dating someone else, consider if a relationship is worth a breakup, especially if either of you has kids. Be aware that this would make you the other man or woman in a new relationship.
Distractions can be fun! Sign up for a class that you’ve always wanted to take or join a fitness group. Make plans to travel or read books you’ve put off.
You can hang out with old friends, too! The point is to get social and spend time not thinking about your boss.
Don’t get offended if your friend is harsh or really straightforward. Remember, they care about you and don’t want you to jeopardize your career.
It’s fine to let your co-workers know that you’re interested in starting a relationship—just don’t tell them you like the boss.
Although it’s drastic, you might consider looking for a new job if you really don’t think you can comfortably work around your boss anymore.
